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You can't expect yourself to be able to do the things they do. They
are pros at it. I know that sounds funny, sometimes I wish I was a
pro at having sex. That is what they are though. That is why they
get paid the big bucks to show it all for the camera. They can bend
themselves into positions that we can't even imagine. The women can
suck a cock twice as long as a normal woman can. When was the last
time you saw a woman take a huge penis in her back door and wonder how
she could take all of it?
Some women are into trying out what they see on the television. That
doesn't mean though that they play with themselves with the sex toys
all day long watching porn. That means that they are really into the
sex acts. That is like hitting pay dirt my friend. If you were at a
casino lights would be flashing telling you that you won a jackpot.
Well, let's slow down a little here. There is one problem, kind of a
big problem. Most men see these things in the movies and they are too
embarrassed to ask their lover to try it out. I'm not sure why this
is, but maybe it has to do with the fact that you have to admit to
watching porn.
If you never ask, you will never know. If you run under the blankets
every time you want to try something new, she won't ever know what is
on your mind. Though it might seem like it at times, women aren't
mind readers. You need to tell her what you want to do. Don't be
ashamed. Chances are there are new things she would like to do as
well. If you keep an open line of communication open, you stand a
better chance of acting out your fantasizes. What do you have to
loose? You need to keep in mind that just because she likes to get
nasty, that doesn't mean that she is nasty. You have to keep a
different mind set when you see your woman doing these sex acts
compared to the woman you see in the movie doing it. In your mind the
woman in the movie is a dirty slut, in real life, the woman doing this
to you is the woman you have to wake up next to.
If you expect to have a lasting relationship that lasts more than one
bang, you need to be open. If you plan on being with this woman for a
long period of time, then you need to be able to discuss your sexual
dreams. That is the only way a relationship can last. If you don't
you will end up with a lot of built up tension or one hell of a credit
card bill from buying porn videos all the time. Its not worth keeping
your fantasizes quite. Be open, be honest. You will find out that
she has some weird sexual desires to. Have fun with them. If you
expect her to go along with yours, you have to expect to go along with
hers. Life is a two way street, the only one way streets are guys
named Cindy who like it in the ass from another guy.
You should buy some oils and maybe even some kinky costumes. Do a
little role playing in bed. Be that big bad rent collector and she
doesn't have the money to pay this month. Tell her that she will have
to lie on her back and screw you for this months rent. Do kinky stuff
that turns both of you on. Usually there is some middle ground that
you can reach regarding things like this. Make it fun, be an actor.
Try to win a Grammy award.
Don't be unrealistic. Don't expect her to be able to roll up in a
ball like putty while you bang her. Chances are most men and women
can't get themselves in the positions that they see in the movies.
That is just a fact you will have to live with. Instead, take away
bits and pieces that you know you will be able to do. Do a variation
of doggy style or something like that. Have her lay on a pillow so
her buttocks points higher up than normal. That sort of thing. Find
ways to work around all of it.
If you aren't too demanding, things will fall into place. You aren't
a movie director, don't tell her how to make her every move. That
will only put too much pressure on her. If you were put under that
much pressure you wouldn't be able to perform. So won't be able to
either. Keep a clear and realistic mind when it comes to acting out
your favorite sex scenes. This will help you get the most bang for
your porno buck. It will keep you a satisfied customer again and
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